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June update: odd changes [Jun. 30th, 2014|09:52 am]
priestmatthias

Best part first, I am back to work. I work for a legal eduction group just down the street from the state capital building. The money isn't great, but the benefits are good and it will be awesome on my resume.

The things I've had to do over the last six months have been rough to say the least. Within the last month I went on seven interviews and did two video interviews on line.

We adopted another cat, which brings us to three. His owner was an older lady who had brain cancer and was dying in the hospital.

I have not been active with my other blogs at all. My entire time for the past year has been focused on the job search and terrible low paying entry level jobs. The last toy I bought was last year and before that was a year prior. So, on the whole it's been a rough time since 2012.
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[User Picture]From: i_love_tazzus
2014-07-01 02:16 am (UTC)
Awesome!
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[User Picture]From: hasty_smurf
2014-07-03 01:55 am (UTC)
I'm glad to hear things are looking up for you. I can't imagine how hard things have been. I'm glad to hear about the cat. What a great thing for you to be able to do.
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[User Picture]From: fatdeeman
2014-07-03 05:29 pm (UTC)
Glad things are getting better!

I've had a bad time since 2012 too. Had our first child in 2011 and it was amazing, I was so proud of my little family and so in love and the happiest I'd ever been and it felt like life finally made sense and then just in time for my 30th birthday in 2012 I get the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" speech after 7 years together and after her begging me to start a family in the first place. Within 3 months she was living with some other guy. I'm still picking up the pieces now really but doing much better. I've never felt anything like it in my life I went from an all time high to an all time low in the blink of an eye! I gave up my family and life as I knew it to move across the country to be with her in the first place so after she went I felt very isolated at a time when I needed to be around people it was a shitty horrific time and it really put a downer on the second year of parenthood which should have been one of the best times of my life.

It's good to know things are looking more positive for you, as you can tell things have been negative for me too so I know how you feel, nobody deserves unhappiness.
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[User Picture]From: priestmatthias
2014-07-04 01:09 pm (UTC)
I went through a similar process in 2001. It can be rough. It took me two years to recover. Everything feeling unsafe and not stable is horrible and I can totally relate.
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[User Picture]From: deathwish949
2014-07-06 01:22 pm (UTC)
So happy to hear things are looking up. You and your wife are awesome people and you guys really deserve a break for a change!
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